I finished reading a pre-release copy of Perry Noble’s new book Overwhelmed a few weeks ago. I’ve always enjoyed listening to Noble preach, and I have been able to visit NewSpring on several occasions for conferences. This book really caught my interest because of where I’m at in ministry and life. I really liked that Perry is open and honest with his personal struggles. He shares about his battle with depression and anxiety.   He shares from numerous Bible stories, like the story of Daniel. From Daniel he shares the theme of the book about our focus in life.

This theme runs through the entire book: what gets our attention will ultimately determine our direction. If we are obsessed with stressful circumstances, we will constantly be overwhelmed. But if we are obsessed with Christ, we will overcome.

In Christ we can overcome any situation, no matter how out of control things seem or how overwhelmed we may feel. Typically, we try to find a way out of stressful situations, instead of trying to find Jesus in the midst of our situation.  As Christians, I think we know this, but we tend to be distracted by our problems. It’s easy to get overwhelmed by life. Noble has the unique gift of challenging you in your faith while being humorous at the same time.


For me personally, this was a timely book. As a pastor, I am in a season of life where our church is growing. However, our staffing and leadership is still developing and growing to handle the increase. The expectations and demands of leadership do feel overwhelming at times, and I am growing physically and mentally tired. This book, in addition to several more I have recently read, have led me on a journey to simplify and to recharge. Our society rewards busyness and action, yet the Bible commands us to slow down and rest.

I highly recommend this book to people who are struggling with the circumstances of life. Noble continually points us back to Jesus as our hope and strength. Read through the following highlights to get a better understanding of the book.

My Highlights

  • Are you willing to settle for being overwhelmed by circumstances forever, or do you want to step up and overcome what is robbing you of joy and life?
  • Change begins with a decision: overwhelmed or overcome?
  • As crazy as it may seem, the best way to conquer feeling overwhelmed is to take our eyes off what’s consuming us and get a bigger picture of what’s really important.
  • God is bigger than any difficult circumstances we face, any struggles we experience, any mistakes that threaten to define us. We embrace our true identity when we stop identifying ourselves by our slavery and start identifying ourselves with our Savior.
  • When we’re feeling overwhelmed – whether as a result of our own sin or simply from living in a fallen world, church is exactly the place we need to go for healing, not the place to hide out in camouflage, pretend we’re perfect, or leave because we don’t feel we measure up to the people around us.
  • Church shouldn’t be the place we run from when we’re feeling overwhelmed; it should be the place we run to. After all, church is the place where Jesus meets us and changes us into who we need to be.
  • My prayer for you is that no matter what you’re going through, you will experience hope. God can and will walk with you through this, but you must have the courage to admit you have a problem, accept help, and then ask God to reveal what’s broken inside of you.
  • The devil doesn’t want to make you bad; he wants to make you busy. Because if he can make you busy, then eventually he can make you bad. Busyness always keeps us from recognizing Jesus.
  • Most anxiety and stress in our lives can be traced back to a point where we decided we were going to take control rather than believe that God is in control.
  • The weight that is pressing down on you doesn’t have to define you, because no matter what you’re facing right now … Jesus is greater than your biggest doubt. Jesus is greater than your deepest regret. Jesus is greater than your impossible situation. Jesus is greater than your most overwhelming circumstances.

Disclosure: I received a free digital pre-release copy to review. See my full disclosure policy here

Since the beginning of Cornerstone, we have been blessed with talented youth who have served in our worship ministry. I love the fact that youth have a place to serve and get involved and develop their talents and gifts. Four of our Cornerstone youth, including my son Luke, participated in a music competition today called Voices of the New River. They won the competition and now get the opportunity to spend time in the recording studio working on a CD.

It’s exciting to see teens find purpose and grow in their faith. And seeing my own son, who just turned 14, develop into a great musician is very humbling. I’m excited about the future of our youth ministry. Here are a few videos showing their talents. Hannah has an incredible voice, and Luke, Philip and David are awesome. But I’m most proud of their strong faith in Christ.

Here is a recent Church Service where our youth team led worship at Cornerstone

HipChat for Ministry

March 18, 2014 — 1 Comment



In any organization, keeping everyone on the same page is a challenge. Some people like email, some like twitter, some like text messaging, and then some just like to talk on the phone. I’ve been checking out the HipChat service and thinking how it can be used for ministry. This seems like it would be a perfect fit for ministry teams that aren’t afraid of technology.

It’s free for up to 5 users, but after you add the 6th user, the service starts charging $2 per user per month. I especially like the possibility of using this for volunteer ministry teams. It’s tough getting everyone together at the same time, so private group chats are a great way to share information and still keep everyone informed. Each user can jump in at their convenience, and add comments and see a history of the group conversation.

HipChat is also available on multiple platforms. They have Mac, Windows, Linus, Android, iOS, and website apps. Here are just a few of the key features.

  • Your Own Chat Rooms with complete Chat History
  • Drag and Drop File and Image Sharing
  • Video and Screen Sharing (now in Beta)
  • Guest Access (invite others to share in specific chats)
  • Private and Secure Communication, with access limited to just your organization

Here’s a video showing how it works

Do you use HipChat for Ministry? How does it work? Please share your suggestions in the comments below.


For two more days, you can take advantage of a great deal on youth ministry resources. is a website that shares great deals for ministry resources for only 144 hours. The current deal is winding down, but it’s a great bargain.

Here are the deal details

-This deal ends at NOON (eastern) on Thursday, March 13, 2014 and only lasts 144 hours.

-This deal includes $1,246+ worth of Youth Ministry Curriculum, more than a year’s worth, from Wayfarer. We’ve listed each series that’s included below.  Each 4-week series’ is biblically based, relevant, creatively fresh, and designed to engage the heads, hearts, and hands of your students.  These are perfect for any youth-ministry setting.  Sweeeet!

-Instant download (no shipping required)

We love Wayfarer, which is part of the 3DM organization. Last year, we even took our youth group to the Wayfarer Camp at Myrtle Beach. They have a huge focus on missional discipleship, and I feel they do an incredible job of connecting with students. Their videos and graphics are a little quirky and have a steampunk feel, but they are a lot of fun.

This deal is for 14 different youth series that are each four weeks long! That’s over a year’s worth of curriculum. Each series includes

  • Teaching Guides
  • Leader Guides
  • Series Intro Video
  • Countdown Video
  • Poster Art
  • Screen Slides
  • Page Headers
  • T-Shirt Art

Check out for this great deal, but do it before March 13 at noon.


What they didn't teach you coverI finished this book a few weeks ago and wanted to share my thoughts. This is the type of book I really enjoy. I love learning from other experienced pastors, and this book is full of practical wisdom and advice.   I was especially interested in this book since I recently finished up my seminary degree. The author, James Emery White, is both a successful pastor and a former seminary president, so he knows what he is talking about. I fully agree with his reasoning behind the book.

We need seminary. But in fairness to a seminary education, there are certain things it will never be able to impart, even if it tries. God bless professors, but most of them have never been the pastor of a church. They may have been interim pastors or had a short-term pastorate while in seminary, but they are, in truth, academics. They are not practitioners.

I saw this first hand in several of my classes. There was a disconnect between the academic world and real-life ministry. Seminary really doesn’t prepare you at an emotional level to lead a church. It is not always easy helping people in crisis situations or resolving conflict within teams and ministries of your church. This book shares principles that will help any pastor lead their church. The author shares about church structure, leadership, boundaries in ministry, parenting, conflict resolution, preaching, team-building, vision-casting, and much more. Again, I really enjoyed this book. It’s the perfect blend of practical instruction and Biblical wisdom.

Here are a few passages I highlighted from the book

  • First, the bad news: there’s not a quick fix. Ministry is just flat-out tough and often emotionally draining. You won’t ever escape the hits and the hurts. They come with the territory. Now, the good news: you can develop a way of life that protects, strengthens, and replenishes you emotionally. You can cultivate a set of activities and choices that allow God to restore your soul.
  • There is a myth that churches are successful because they do certain things; in truth, churches are successful because they know why they do certain things. In other words, they have a clear missional target on the wall.
  • Leaders must look deeper than the latest model or program, conference or style, and realize that the process inherent within a thriving church has not changed in two thousand years: you must evangelize the lost, then assimilate those evangelized, then disciple those assimilated, and then unleash those discipled for ministry.
  • Do ministry not from memory or mimicry but from imagination. This means you are the originator, the creator, the one who is fashioning new solutions and opening new vistas.
  • What are the consequences of my decision in ten minutes, in ten months, and in ten years?
  • I made a vow: we will not die of old age! If the natural flow of the church is to skew older, then that means the leadership of the church has to invest a disproportionate amount of energy and intentionality in order to maintain a vibrant population of young adults.
  • Committee: The unwilling picked from the unfit to do the unnecessary.
  • Church structure may be the single most underrated dynamic of effective church ministry. I’ve even called it our biggest “secret” to success. Why? Because church structure either releases the gift of leadership or stymies it. And churches rise and fall on leadership.
  • For example, committees keep the people who are doing the ministry from making the decisions about the ministry. Authority and responsibility become separate from one another. An effective structure lets the individuals who are the most intimately involved in a particular ministry, and the best qualified, make the day-in, day-out decisions regarding that ministry.
  • Do only what only you can do. Delegate everything else.

Burruss Hall at Night

March 7, 2014

Burruss Hall at Night. It’s great being back on campus

FaithConnectorIn a previous post, I shared about, a great company making church templates for WordPress. I’m a huge proponent of using WordPress for church websites if you have someone that has the skill level to maintain the site. WordPress is powerful, but it also requires someone with fairly strong web skills. For churches that want to focus on the content of the site, without worrying about hosting details, security, and updates, a better solution may be to use a company that handles the hard work for you.

FaithConnector is one of the newer sponsors of my site, and they have a great turnkey solution for church websites. They provide great working websites, with all the features you need for your church. You start with a design template, have it customized with your church logo and graphics, and then add content for your church.  They handle the hosting and support for you. I’m really impressed with the number of features they offer. Here are just a few.

Price aside, we built our system for churches and ministries, and that’s why you’ll find church and ministry-specific applications included such as the member directory, ice-breakers, ministries, small groups, prayer requests, eCards, classifieds, courses, and online giving and then many, many more that are more general in nature such as discussion boards, chat, calendar, announcements, blogs, business listings, media player, mobile site, podcast, rss feeds, streaming media, email blasting, photo galleries, surveys and online store.

Pricing starts at $45 per month and a $250 startup fee, but you are buying peace of mind when you go with a company like FaithConnector.  The video below shows a sample of what FaithConnector is doing. If you are looking for a quick and easy website solution, then this may be for you.

Disclaimer: FaithConnector is a current sponsor of this site and the links in this review are affiliate links. I have not personally used FaithConnector, but I am impressed with the demo videos and the sites they currently host. I am always looking for good technology solutions for churches, and I believe this is a good solution for many churches. You can see my full disclosure policy here.


This video has been making the rounds on Facebook in our hometown of Galax. I love how it highlights the community and shows our culture here in the mountains. One of the keys for any church is understanding and connecting to the culture in your city. God has currently placed Cornerstone right in the heart of downtown Galax, so this is our mission field. Watch and enjoy.

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